9. When Politeness Hides the Truth
- Ann Desseyn
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Non-compliance is uncomfortable. In multilingual audits, that discomfort expands across cultural expectations, hierarchical norms, and language habits — creating an environment where failures are softened long before they reach the auditor.
This is softened non-compliance: a situation where the words used to describe a failure downplay its severity, blur responsibility, or transform a clear non-conformity into something far gentler.
It’s one of the hardest risks to detect because it sounds cooperative, reasonable, and reassuring — even when the underlying issue is significant.
How Non-Compliance Gets Softened
Across cultures, people balance truth with harmony. When reporting problems, many teams choose language that avoids embarrassment or conflict.
1. Findings are re-phrased to avoid offence
Instead of “not done,” you hear: “It was slightly delayed,” or “It may not have been fully completed.” The issue sounds smaller than it is.
2. Severity is downgraded automatically
Words like minor issue, small deviation, not fully aligned, or needs improvement often replace clear statements of failure. This isn’t deception — it’s cultural politeness.
3. Polite explanations replace evidence
Teams offer justification instead of documentation:
“We normally do this,”
“We try our best,”
“We didn’t want to disturb production,”
“We thought it was fine.”
Auditors sometimes accept these soft answers as evidence, especially when translated gently.
Why This Threatens Audit Integrity
Softened non-compliance creates multiple risks:
Audit findings underrepresent reality
Significant failures appear “minor”
Risk assessments become inaccurate
CARs address symptoms instead of causes
Management remains unaware of true exposure
Repeat issues continue unnoticed
Politeness becomes a barrier to accuracy.
Examples Auditors Encounter Often
These phrases usually signal softened non-compliance:
“We did it most of the time.”
“There was a small misunderstanding.”
“It’s normally done, just not today.”
“We planned to fix it soon.”
“It isn’t a big issue.”
In multilingual audits, these softeners become even softer when filtered through translation.
Why Traditional Audit Technique Isn’t Enough
If auditors rely on verbal explanations, especially polite ones, they miss the underlying failure.
Soft language offers comfort, not clarity. Without hard evidence, non-compliance remains hidden.
What Auditors Should Do Immediately
To break through softened language:
1. Record exact wording and compare with evidence
Precise phrasing reveals hidden severity.
2. Ask for proof — not explanation
If it’s not evidenced, it’s not compliant. Intent is not the same as performance.
3. Verify with direct observation
Soft statements lose power when contrasted with real-world process behaviour.
The Insight
Cultural politeness protects relationships — but it shouldn’t protect non-compliance.
Hidden Risk #9 reminds auditors that strong evidence starts with strong language. Anything softened must be validated twice.
